Community guidelines for a room worth protecting.
The manifesto is the promise. These guidelines are the operating rules for clients, companions and future operators.
Adult-only platonic scope
Humanly Held is for verified adults seeking fully clothed, platonic comfort in reviewed settings. It is not dating, massage, therapy, medical care, crisis support, escorting, or sexual services.
Consent is active and reversible
Allowed touch types, pause language, stop language, and companion boundaries must be clear before any session. Stop means stop, every time.
Location requires mutual agreement
A session may happen at either person's home or a neutral private place only when both adults freely approve it. Exact addresses stay out of the initial request. Cars and location pressure are not allowed.
Blocked behavior
Sexual language, coercion, intoxication pressure, harassment, threats, payment bypass, privacy violations, medical claims, and crisis-care requests are out of scope.
Reporting and escalation
Clients and companions should be able to report concerns before, during, or after a session. Operators can pause, deny, or end a session.
Privacy and data minimization
Real operations should store status, references, and review decisions instead of raw identity documents unless counsel requires otherwise.
Kindness still needs consequences.
Humanly Held should reject requests that drift outside scope, pause unclear situations, and remove clients or companions who make the experience unsafe.
See the review process