Community guidelines for a room worth protecting.
The manifesto is the promise. These guidelines are the operating rules for clients, companions, spaces, and future operators.
Adult-only platonic scope
Humanly Held is for verified adults seeking fully clothed, platonic comfort in reviewed settings. It is not dating, massage, therapy, medical care, crisis support, escorting, or sexual services.
Consent is active and reversible
Allowed touch types, pause language, stop language, and companion boundaries must be clear before any session. Stop means stop, every time.
Trusted spaces only
The pilot excludes client homes, companion homes, hotel rooms, cars, informal meetups, and off-platform session changes.
Blocked behavior
Sexual language, coercion, intoxication pressure, harassment, threats, payment bypass, privacy violations, medical claims, and crisis-care requests are out of scope.
Reporting and escalation
Clients, companions, and space partners should be able to report concerns before, during, or after a session. Operators can pause, deny, or end a session.
Privacy and data minimization
Real operations should store status, references, and review decisions instead of raw identity documents unless counsel requires otherwise.
Kindness still needs consequences.
Humanly Held should reject requests that drift outside scope, pause unclear situations, and remove clients, companions, or spaces that make the room unsafe.
These rules are not final legal terms. They are the product standard that legal, privacy, and insurance review should harden before real operations.
See the review processNo quiet category drift.
The service stays adult-only, fully clothed, and platonic even when growth pressure shows up. Anything else is a different business with different risk.
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